"I cannot tell what you and other men,
Think of this life; but, for my single self,
I had as lief not be as living to be
In awe of such a thing as myself"
Cassius to Brutus in Julius Caesar, Act I, Scene 2
Everywhere I go now, I see them everywhere. All over in the place, in different colors, sizes, fonts: Black Lives Matter, All Lives Matter, Blue Lives Matter, and a host of others. I find, however, that most of the time they're displayed not as a show of support for a particular cause, but as a self-serving show of virtue. And I feel in that sense, they cheapen whatever message they are intended to convey.
Everybody, of course, has an opinion on the whole "Lives Matter" debate. And sometimes those differences in opinion get violent. Look to Portland, OR. Kenosha, WI. Seattle, WA. And all across the United States, in urban and suburban settings.
What if we internalized all of these "Lives Matter" movements? I don't mean keeping our mouths shut. I mean internalizing the theme and applying it to our own lives, instead of lashing out in anger against people we feel have marginalized us, or we feel are attacking people we respect/identify with, or just taking a contradictory view to the one held by people we don't like.
What if we "flipped the script" and just told people "Your Life Matters"?
I don't have to worry about alienating and specific demographic with telling someone "Your Life Matters". I don't signal virtue about how "woke" I am. And by affirming to someone that "Your Life Matters", I personalize the discussion, I create a dialogue, and if I don't particularly agree with their position (or they don't like me), I put them in the uncomfortable position of having to argue against something that is obviously true. It's a fools errand for them, and I can go about my day. Checkmate.
Because of course your life matters. So does mine. Our Founders even affirmed it, that everyone is endowed "by their creator with certain inalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness". Of course, when it was written, the Declaration didn't cover all men, but you don't get to argue that the Declaration (and Constitution) is a "living document", yet still demand that certain groups in the United States don't enjoy the same rights as everyone else. You can't have it both ways.
So when faced with someone who is obviously virtue signalling, simply smile and tell them "YOUR life matters." Smile, and walk away as they overheat their brain and tie themselves into philosophical knots trying to find an argument to prove you wrong.
Here's the kicker: your life does matter. And you are arguing that every life is precious: black, white, brown, unborn, etc... By removing demographic qualifiers, you're affirming that every life has inherent value.
Doesn't it?